Crazy Ex-Girlfriends & Bitter Ex-Wives

I’ve been the crazy ex-girlfriend and the bitter ex-wife. I didn’t plan to be either. But pain—especially the pain of love lost—can shape us in ways we never expected. This is a raw invitation to reflect, release bitterness, and start healing.

What I’d Tell a Newly Separated or Divorced Christian Woman: Healing, Anger, and Moving Forward Without Bitterness

To the newly separated woman overwhelmed by pain and anger: you are not alone. Divorce is devastating, but healing is possible. Embrace grace, set healthy boundaries, lean on God, care for your children, and choose peace over bitterness. Every step forward is a victory on the road to freedom.

What “God Hates Divorce” Really Means for Divorced Christian Women

“God hates divorce” is often misunderstood and misused in Christian culture, especially against those in painful marriages or post-divorce. In truth, God’s heart is against abuse and injustice, particularly the mistreatment of vulnerable wives, not the hurting individuals seeking freedom and grace.

How to Stop Obsessing Over Your Ex-Husband

Detaching from an ex-spouse after years as “one flesh” is painful and takes time. Healing begins by taking thoughts captive, praying for severance of unhealthy ties, and filling your life with new, meaningful activities. Grace yourself—moving on starts in your mind and with intentional steps.

3 Myths Christian Women Believe About Healing After Divorce (and What to Do Instead)

Healing from divorce doesn’t happen by itself—time alone won’t fix the pain. True healing requires intentional reflection, God’s presence, and deep work beyond counseling or books. Avoid the bitterness trap, face your anger, and resist rushing into new relationships before you’re truly ready.

Sex & the Divorced Christian Woman

As a divorced Christian woman who waited until her wedding night to have sex again, I want to share the real struggle behind waiting—not because of culture, but because sex is a natural part of building intimacy in a loving relationship. Waiting is hard, but it’s possible and worth it.